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Fr. Arthur H. Paré, S.J.
Volume 60

MISSIONARY, TEACHER,
PASTORAL MINISTER, MUSICIAN

Fr. Arthur H. Paré, S.J.


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His Decision to Enter the Jesuits

I entered after my first year there at Boston College. An interesting thing happened to me that year at Boston College. I had picked up the trumpet during my second or third year in high school and played in the band. So I did the same thing at BC along with John Kerdiejus, whom I didn't know that well, and John Caskin and Bob Regan, whom I did.
We were a famous class, and I'll never forget what happened in the BC cafeteria after our last exam of the year. I said to John Kerdiejus, "I don't know if I'm going to ever see you again. I'm entering the Society of Jesus." And he said, "Is that right? Holy Smokes!" So, I entered on August 14, 1947. A couple of days later, the names of those entering in the next group in September were put up on the board. Lo and behold, John Kerdiejus' name was on that list! I said, "You son of a gun!" He later explained, "I really didn't know. You kind of gave me a kick in the pants, and I decided to enter, too."

Teaching English in Beirut

We taught English at Notre Dame de Jamhour, which was a beautiful new building, only two years old. And I had a wonderful view over the city. I could have stayed there the rest of my life-it was just gorgeous: the blue Mediterranean to the west and the snow-capped mountains to the east. I couldn't ask for better. And the Lebanese were wonderful. So from 1954 to 1957 I had a great time.
I also had permission and opportunity to go Germany each summer to study modern European history. I also wanted to improve my German. I had started studying German under a very good teacher at Boston College named Mr. Cahill. Why not? I already had French up to my ears! Later on, XXXI was joined by Ray Bertrand, and we had two wonderful years together.

Working in a New Hampshire Parish

I asked the provincial, Bob Manning, if I could go to the Diocese of Manchester so I could be closer to my Mom. And he said yes. I liked Odore Gendron of Manchester.
I made a number of retreats at St. Anselm's while Bishop Gerry was the abbot. XXX I went to see him, and we talked about spirituality. He later became my boss again at St. Pius Parish in Portland.

But before I got to St. Pius, I was assigned to St. John the Baptist in Suncook, which is a little northern suburb between Manchester and Concord. Once again, I was at a francophone parish, where I preached in French at the eight o'clock Mass. All the other Masses there were in English. Also, at that time, I worked at Bishop Brady High School as a freshman counselor.

Starting a Stewardship Program in Portland

Those eight years in St. Pius X were very good for me. I had a town meeting my first summer there, and people were quite angry about the change, especially one person. He apparently thought that I didn't know anything about the church finances. He and a number of others claimed that the church had a lot of money in various places. I said that we'd look into it, and we did. Then, after a while, I was able to build up a wonderful parish council with some truly dedicated, able, and efficient people. They took care of a lot of the affairs when I started a stewardship program.

His Love of the French Horn

It was while I was working at Connolly High School in Fall River that I found that a French horn professor lived near the high school, so I thought this was a sign from God to start the horn. I was able to play with the Fall River Symphony and planted the seed for a music program at the school, which, unfortunately never reached fruition...
Portland offered me more opportunities to play. I joined the Italian Heritage Band, organized a quintet, which played at different parish functions. We even played in downtown Portland and received a stipend. I also played with a horn quartet every Monday morning for a couple of years. These and the band concerts were an exciting and life-giving tonic in my life. Sadly, I did not play at all during my 2004-2005 sabbatical. However, the experience of trying to play this wonderful instrument was a great time in my life.

 

Born: October 13, 1928, Manchester, New Hampshire

• Entered: August 14, 1947, Lenox, Massachusetts, St. Stanislaus Novitiate/Shadowbrook

• Ordained: June 18, 1960, Weston, Massachusetts, Weston College

 
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